Well. Fifty years. Half a century. Ten decades.
Surely those words don’t apply to the young girl that I am, right? Yeah. Right.
I woke up about six-thirty last week (June 30, in case some of you missed it, haha) knowing that SOMETHING was going down in our office. My Admin. Assistant, Cindy, turned 50 several-some years back and I did it up hardCORE, so I knew something was going to happen.
At seven a.m. I had a text from the acting dispatcher in my Transport department, apologizing for hitting me up before work, but could I come by their office before getting involved in anything else. I texted my office to let them know I’d be late.
My admin texted me back, asking me where I was. I assured her I was still at home. She sounded more than a little concerned about my whereabouts, so I was convinced, even more, that those wonderful women had something up their sleeves…
And they did. I would have been disappointed had they not, though, LOL…
I went to the Transport office and met with who I needed to talk to, got the skinny and went on about my day, pausing in the old ED hall to call and ask if it was okay to proceed to the Service Center.
I was given the go ahead.
So proceed, I did. I even got stopped a few times by people asking me questions about this and that.
Figured that’d be ok…There was plenty of time. Seems I should have taken more time, LOL…
When I got to the office door, I noticed the lights were out. Jennifer told me via sign language to wait a second. Mary and Angela came up behind me and THEY were let in, and I was stuck, outside the doorway.
When they finally let me in? Holy balls, y’all! When I saw what they’d pulled together for my 50th birthday I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry; laugh, because it was all funny as hell, and cry because those ladies had put so much thought and energy into what was in front of me.
It was an amazing day; it truly was!
I will never, ever (yanno, until senility takes over my mind) forget how much time, effort and love went into making my 50th birthday so memorable it totality overshadowed my 40th!
And in the spirit of my fellow blogger, “There’s a Squirrel in My Blog,” I am going to post fifty things I’ve learned on the half century (gasp!) that I’ve been on earth:
Treat everyone how you wish to be treated. Not only is this fair? It comes back to you threefold.
- Don’t take it personally. It probably isn’t about you, so quit acting as such.
- It’s easier to ask forgiveness later than to ask permission beforehand.
- Do NOT wear your heart on your sleeve. Show only what you need to show, ESPECIALLY if you happen to be in management.
- Be a cheerful giver.
- When in a foreign country, be sure to learn the native language to the point where you can ask where the bathroom, the beach, and the nearest restaurant are.
- Love your children no matter what. They are still young enough not to realize what kind of pain they can inflict.
Do NOT hold grudges; they waste waaaay too much energy and at our age? We need all we can get.
- Life is not fair.
- Don’t make someone your everything if you were their nothing from the beginning.
- Always, ALWAYS keep accurate track of your checkbook.
- Never, EVER ignore correspondence from the IRS.
- If you start your own business, DO know the principles of accounting and bookkeeping.
- Never, EVER disrespect your mother.
- Never, EVER disrespect your father.
- Don’t ever undermine your children when THEY are the parents and you have the luxury of spoiling your grandkids and then give them back. That shit has a way of coming back to bite you in the ass (this is not something I know first-hand, however).
- Tell your children you love them, every chance you get.
- Tell your parents you love them, every chance you get.
- Be fair in all your business dealings.
- Don’t play favorites; both in business and in your personal life.
Don’t be afraid to fail. Failure is simply another opportunity to improve your success.
- Appreciate Nature. You won’t be sorry.
- Visit an ocean if you have the opportunity. Again? You won’t be sorry.
- Tell your spouse/significant other that you love them and to be safe when you or he/she walks out the door. You never know what can happen prior to yours or their return.
- Do NOT speak ill of the dead.
- Love (and I mean REALLY love and care for) one animal during your life. You will reap so many benefits from this.
- Dogs are better than most people.
Stop seeing color. I mean it. Racism is a passing thing, and if you still think that’s cool? Guess what? You’re wrong. M&M’s come in an array of colors, and if you think the blues taste better than the greens? You’ve just shown your IQ. Get over yourself.
- Appreciate who you have in your life right this very moment; you never know when they will cease to be in your life. (I love and miss you, Mike!)
- Treat your children equally.
- Share your crayons, especially if you have that box of 64 Crayolas with the sharpener in the back.
- Make friends with the new kid.
- Appreciate your grand (and great-grand)parents; once they’re gone, they’re gone for good, and you can’t bring them back to tell them you love them one more time.
Same goes for your parents. They sacrificed a lot for you, even if you don’t see it.
- Don’t laugh at the kid that asks you if you’re from Germany, even though you know you are Sicilian, and way too blonde, blue eyed, and fair to look the part. You may offend your future bestie. Just saying. (I love you, Allison!)
- Travel when you can. Seriously. When the ability to travel is taken away from you, you WILL kick yourself for not seeing more places than you did.
- Speaking of travel? See as many of the fifty states as you can, if you’re in the United States. If you’re in Canada, Europe, etc., see what you can.
Go to a tropical island. This is separate from going to the beach; Tropical islands are supposed to have an atmosphere all their own.
- Hike some mountains. I’m a beach person, but hiking through forests with some inclines/declines is not only a challenge, but it’s fun!
- Watch what you eat.
- Exercise regularly.
- Regarding exercising regularly, if there is a history of osteoporosis in your family? Consider, seriously, taking up weigh training. It will reduce your risk of bone disease a lot.
- Find hobbies you enjoy. What is life if you don’t have any damned fun, right?
- Find a belief system. It doesn’t have to be traditional; but find one, nonetheless. It will help you connect with what IS and your higher power. This is an amazing thing.
- Reach out to your virtual friends (if you have them). They can be a source of advice, inspiration, and encouragement.
- Love yourself. Seriously…it’s harder than it sounds, yo.
- If you can afford it? Donate to your favorite charity; adopt from your local animal shelter; save a life as often as you can.
- Speaking of saving lives? Be CPR certified if you can. Saving a life is important.
- Take as good care of yourself as you do the others in your life. And finally?
- Be a good friend. It will pay off in the long run.
The only other thing I can say is that in the first half century of my life, I have been blessed with an amazing husband, wonderful friends, a granddaughter, two grandsons and hopefully, the knowledge that can take me through the next half century.
Live long, be heathy and treat each other well.
Until Next Time…
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Congratulations on surviving this long with all you have been through and still have the great sense of humor. Sounds like a great party! Hugs and smooches!!
It’s been a piece of cake, believe it or not….
You are one tough cookie. Have you had a chance to read any of my blogs?
Thanks…I really had to wrack my brain…
Aw, you’re still a baby. Not even old enough for the senior discount at most places.
Happy Belated Birthday, Julie!
Thank you! 🙂 I am seriously considering an AARP membership. 😉
Dayum…you are…FIFTY? Holy Be’Jeebus…!!!
I Iove you, Skwarl!